Sibling Rivalry

I don’t know of any siblings who get along ALL the time.  If there are any siblings out there who never fight, please let me know what the secret is?

We are two children, more specifically – two girls.  (My poor Dad!)  I am the oldest, followed by my sister who is seven years younger than me.  We are totally different!  I am an introvert – no, seriously – and she is an extreme extrovert.  We are both sporty and that leads to a minor bit of competition.  She is VERY opinionative and I am well, getting there.

As the oldest, I feel that my sister has everything so much easier.  Is it acceptable to feel like that?  I mean, I tell myself its okay, but is it really?  Why do I have to feel guilty when I do not help my parents with the dishes and she gets away with it?  Why do I always have to say sorry and she can just shrug and walk away?  Why do I let myself become influenced by this menial situation?  Can the problem be with me?

Then I sit down and find myself thinking, what would life be without her?  Absolutely BORING!!  I won’t have anyone to complain to about my parents (LOL), or work, or my friends, etc.  Spending time with my sister I learn so much more about her.  I feel we can be friends.

I remember being a six-year old girl, I used to slid down from my bed drop onto my knees, fold my hands and pray for a little brother or sister, someone who can play with me.  My prayers got answered and I feel I am not always as appreciative as I am supposed to be.

She is growing up so quickly, we are growing up so quickly.  I have to do my utmost best to be the best sister ever. 

I love you Sis!  ♥